Dear Love Coach,

I've been dating my girlfriend Laura for nearly three months. She's a top girl, and the sex is good, but she doesn't like me kissing her on the mouth - during sex or otherwise - and it's starting to do my head in. What should I do?


Dave, Ilford, Essex


Dear Dave

This is a delicate situation, isn't it darling? Must be terribly hard for you. But it sounds to me like this girl of yours has some issues. Not enjoying being kissed on the mouth is something those filthy hookers do. Are you sure she hasn't been on the game at some point? If not then it must be some deep-rooted issue that she needs to see someone about.

Sweetie, kissing is the greatest part of love-making, if she isn't up for a smooch then I would suggest finding someone who is.

Dear Love Coach,


I've done something terrible, please help me. I got drunk at my brother-in-law's wedding last month and gave him a blow job in the toilets during the reception. I can't really remember exactly how it happened, all I know is that I feel totally mortified by the event and am totally paranoid that my husband is going to find out. I'm so miserable!


Cathy, East Dulwich, London


Cathy darling,

What a silly girl you have been! My dear, you should watch how much you drink if this is what happens to you - goodness me! Try and drink plenty of water and stick to the sausages at the buffet in future! Keep your chin up, your brother-in-law won't dare risk saying anything. It will all be forgotten about in a few weeks. Thanks goodness he didn't slip you one - it could have been worse.

Dear Love Coach,

I've got a crush on my boss at work, what should I do? I have a panic attack every time I arrive at work and go bright red when she calls me into her office. I want to tell her how I feel but I keep bottling out last minute.

Josh, Brighton, East Sussex


Dear Josh,

If I could count the amount of people who write to me about their crushes on their bosses, I would be a very rich woman by now!

The work place is the most common place to meet people - and respect people - and the fact that this woman is your boss and in a position of power is what excites you. Do you really think you could make a relationship work outside of work? Think about it. It's not worth risking your job over. Move on.

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