Dear Love Coach,


I've done something terrible, please help me. I got drunk at my brother-in-law's wedding last month and gave him a blow job in the toilets during the reception. I can't really remember exactly how it happened, all I know is that I feel totally mortified by the event and am totally paranoid that my husband is going to find out. I'm so miserable!


Cathy, East Dulwich, London


Cathy darling,

What a silly girl you have been! My dear, you should watch how much you drink if this is what happens to you - goodness me! Try and drink plenty of water and stick to the sausages at the buffet in future! Keep your chin up, your brother-in-law won't dare risk saying anything. It will all be forgotten about in a few weeks. Thanks goodness he didn't slip you one - it could have been worse.

Dear Love Coach,

I've got a crush on my boss at work, what should I do? I have a panic attack every time I arrive at work and go bright red when she calls me into her office. I want to tell her how I feel but I keep bottling out last minute.

Josh, Brighton, East Sussex


Dear Josh,

If I could count the amount of people who write to me about their crushes on their bosses, I would be a very rich woman by now!

The work place is the most common place to meet people - and respect people - and the fact that this woman is your boss and in a position of power is what excites you. Do you really think you could make a relationship work outside of work? Think about it. It's not worth risking your job over. Move on.

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