Dear Love Coach,

I'm 17 and still a virgin. I'm the only one out of all my friends who hasn't been laid yet, and I'm starting to feel like a freak. But the thing is, I don't fancy boys or girls. I don't feel very sexual at all. Is there something wrong with me? Please help.

Hailey, Colchester, Essex

Dear Hailey,

Sweetheart. Not everyone is sexual. I've come across many people in my time who have abstained from sex most of their lives - it's just not for everyone. You're still young, and your feelings might change over time - just think of all those STDs you're avoiding! There're many other things in life worth enjoying aside from forming the double backed monster, like scrabble or flower arranging.

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