Dear Love Coach

I'm having a dilemma. I had a car accident ten months ago where I broke a leg, some ribs and suffered from concussion. For some reason after the recovery I completely lost my confidence with women, and haven't dated - or had sex - with anyone since.

I really want to move on with my life, but not sure how. I feel stuck in a rut.

Tommy, Brighton


Dear Tommy,

Firstly, I am so sorry to hear about your accident. It sounds like you've been through a real trauma and one's body has to take time to heal.

You mustn't put so much pressure on yourself darling. There's no rush. When your body is ready to start dating, so will your mind, and your confidence will flood back. Just you wait - you will wake up one morning with a massive stiffy, and away you'll go.